by tonishagordon | Oct 21, 2020 | Artistic Expression, Rants + Rambles
I have grown to know that unconditional love is the only love I can give my all to Unconditional love is… … forgiveness… overcoming fear… … patience + self-soothing when needed Unconditional love sets the climate for safe attachment + consistent intimacy Unconditional...
by tonishagordon | Sep 20, 2020 | Self-Care, Wellness
Aromatherapy is a real thing in my house. Every day, multiple times a day, there is an essential oil, incense or sage burning. If the house feels a little stuffy, I smudge an herb + open a window. If someone is in my house with negative vibes, I smudge. If you cough...
by tonishagordon | Aug 16, 2020 | Self-Care, Wellness
Meditation has become popular over the last few years. It is particularly useful to incorporate daily to improve your mental health, especially during this pandemic, racial injustice + police brutality we are dealing with on a daily basis. Although it sounds like it...
by tonishagordon | Jun 21, 2020 | Artistic Expression, Rants + Rambles
Closer “I want us to be closer” What exactly does that mean? How can that mission be accomplished? “Closer” Closer would indicate that we gravitate towards one another + strengthen bonds Closer should mean that feelings have a safer place to be unleashed + heard...
by tonishagordon | May 31, 2020 | Artistic Expression, Rants + Rambles
As time passes, I’m hoping so for the rest of this The rest of the time we may waste Forcing ourselves to be + do what neither of us wants The bullshit of the stupid games that have continuously played The “rules” of by whom + when contact can be made Consistently...